Connie

I've changed, and I'm only human. I'll sit here with coffee from Starbucks whilst you blunder your way through reality.

Bye.

Thursday, November 12, 2009

About a girl. (or girls)

Hello fellow readers, we (Xiao Qi and I) are going to present to you why girls should be independent, strong and rocking \m/ and not be attached.

DISCLAIMER: This is what we feel, and we are not targetting anyone in general. And we are not against relationships as a whole, but against the motives behind it. Get it?

Girls do not need boys.
Without women, men will be nothing.

1) Boys are stupid, throw rocks at them.

This is true. Boys are dense people who need constant probbing when it comes to emotional things. They can be insensitive sods who take everything literally and not take the meaning behind what you say. Therefore, you'll be packed to the top of your cupboard trying to make sure your boyfriend understands what you're hinting at or that he is paying attention to you. Not only that, boys don't and won't give you their 100% (esp if you're those that needs lots of attention). Don't forget they have psps, wii or whatever electronic thing they can get their hands on. So, heck! Don't have a boyfriend, it's too troublesome anyway.

2) Love is overrated.

Yes! LOVE IS OVERRATED. We strongly believe that at this age, you are NOT capable of loving anyone of the opposite sex. Hello, don't kid yourself if you say you love someone. Please, I absolutely am terribly disgusted when guys and girls say that they love each other. (smacks head) Yeah right, all said in a heat of the moment, and when they quarrel they want to break up ._. Being friends are so much better. Breaking up with a boyfriend may mean losing a guy friend. Not only that, you'll be sobbing your eyeballs out and subjecting yourself to emomomo songs, which will make the ears of others around you bleed. So troublesome and will heartpain right? Then don't have a boyf!

3) Girlfriends

Treasure your girlfriends! They're most probably the sweetest people ever and are the only ones who can make your day besides your family luh. Spend more time with them caus they're awesome and you know it. They are with you 24/7 and love you no matter who you are. Why, they even have seenyour unglamest side before. Many friendships are broken because of one of the girls being in a relationship. They tend to neglect their friends and do everything with their boyfriends. True friends are hard to find remember? You can always find another boyfriend but not the same girlfriends elsewhere. I believe that girlfriends overrule boys anyway. So spend time with your girls instead of havign a boyf. It's more fun and less restricting anyway!

4) Freedom

Do you seriously want to follow a guy everywhere? Ewwww, even to his favourite lan places or do his shopping? You so don't wanna be labelled as XXX's girlfriend right? I mean c'mon, you have a name. You're an individual not part of some stupid guy. Be yourself and don't be clingy. That's plain gross. Having a boyf also means that you have to spend time with him, and it would mean less quality time with your family, friends and yourself. You'll have less personal space then usual. (I swear this irks me like shit) You have t account for everything for your boyf, like you're his keeper, which you're not. Save yourself such pain please. It's so constricting to be always with oen person, yucks.

5) Commitment

CAN YOU COMMIT? I bet you not. So don't have a boyfriend. This getting old. Being in a relationship is NOT all about lovey dovey shitty toots whatever you see on tv or korean dramas. (Although I love Korean dramas like to the max) It's about commitment, trust and everything else, not just some stupid feeling. You have to be accountable for the other person and have to think about their feelings, and it's not all about you. I hate it when girls change boyfs like they change underwear. Fine, get exposure. Betcha you'll never be satisfied and will never settle long enough because you can't find the right one. Don't have one if you can't commit, seriously. It'll just ruin your entire life or something.

Yes, our musings.
Feminists ftw \m/

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